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The Power of Books
Reading with Your Children
By Susan Y. Attiyah
With our busy schedules, it's often hard to find ways to spend quality time with our children. Why not crack open a book together and create a memorable time you all will cherish?
There is time
Did you know that parents, nowadays, are only able to
spend about 20 hours a month with their children because of their
busy schedules? Twenty hours? It doesn't seem like too
much does it? We sure have a lot of catching up to do. We have missed a
lot of communicating with the children, reading and just spending
quality time snuggling together on the couch.
I bet there was a place you really wanted to take them to, but time just wasn't
with you. How about grabbing a book and reading about it
together? Imagine you are there with your family, talk about
this place together and show your children what pretending is all
about. Studies show the amount of time parents spend reading to
their children is the single most important factor influencing
children's literacy. It is known to be the best way to spend
valuable time with your children.
The love of reading can begin as early as the parent chooses. If
you begin to read to your children at before they are preschool age, you
will soon notice them asking you to read to them; and what a
treat that would be? "Begin reading to pre-school children at
least 20 minutes a day," recommends the U.S Department of Education.
And little by little you can expand that time frame. By
beginning to read to your children at an early age, you are
slowly preparing them for school. They learn how to sit
still, comprehend the story plot and use their imagination.
"Both my husband and I give characters special voices," says
Yvette De Luca. "I also have the girls act out
stories they don't quite understand. It helps with
comprehension. My 6 year old also likes to read to my 4 year
old. I think the most important thing I do, is let the kids read
pretty much whatever they want."
Expand their imagination
Reading is also one of the best ways to expand a child's
imagination. When reading together, ask your children to imagine
what they assume will happen next in the story. Or, have them
picture themselves there, in the story. Maybe your child would
have done something different if he or she was in the characters
place, what would it be?
After reading and discussing the book,
suggest drawing a picture of what happened in the story. Maybe
they would have preferred a different ending, so draw that ending.
I like to frame my children's artwork or add it to the
refrigerator, that way they know how proud I am of what they
accomplished.
Deal with reading problems early
It can be embarrassing to children to have a reading problem.
Not dealing with the problem immediately can put them behind in
their schoolwork. There are many ways we can deal with reading
problems.
Reading together is one of those ways; it will help
overcome these difficulties. Many times you won't even know
there is a reading problem without reading together. It will
build up their self-esteem and increase their vocabulary so that
they will be able to read to a bigger audience.
For example, try having your children set his or her stuffed animals and dolls in
their room as if they are the audience and the child can practice
reading to them. Once you feel they are comfortable reading to
their stuffed animals, go to the next step and have them read to
their siblings, friends, neighbors, etc. This is a wonderful way
to build their self-esteem. Also, while reading together,
encourage your children to ask questions. When answering them,
have them know what a wonderful question that was. They will be
sure to ask again.
Use your library. A library card can be the best gift for your
child. It can teach responsibility as well as good reading
habits. Make it a fun place to visit and show them learning is
not a chore, it can be fun. It is a wonderful way to introduce
them to encyclopedias, history, computers and many other
research items. Enroll them in the library's reading program, make
it as challenging to your child as you want.
One wonderful program the library offers is sponsored by the National Education Association (NEA). This is the fourth year in a row this program is offered throughout the states. It will be conducted March 2 every year in celebrations of Dr. Seuss' birthday. There is an adult who goes into each elementary classroom of each city and reads to children for a half an hour.
Dorothy Fountain, a reading specialist, of Glendora, California says children benefit quite a bit from this program.
"They see how important reading is and they see adults reading to them. It's nice for the adults as well as children, because it is their chance to read their favorite children's books," Fountain says. "Children need to see reading is important to everyone. They need to see our enthusiasm. Too much television is helping with children's visualizations, let the books help with visualization. Let words make pictures in their minds."
Fountain says it is important for parents to continue to read to their children, even if their children already know how to read.
Lynn Rexroat, mother of four says she still reads to her 12-year-old
and 11 year old at night.
"Sometimes that is the only quiet time we have together to bond," she says.
Have family reading times
Remember the saying, "Practice what you preach?" We can't expect
our children to actively engage in reading if they never see us
read. Be a good role model. Keep up your good reading habits as
well. Let your children catch you reading. Always keep good
books and magazines around the house so you both can pick and
choose what interests you. Through this, you will find what your
children are interested in and that will give you topics to
discuss. It's a great way to communicate together. Try turning
off the television and radio, call it "Family Reading Time."
This will become a great reading habit for you and your children.
Let's take advantage of this precious time of reading to them
while they are young, for before we know it they will want to
read to us. And even when the time comes that they want to read
to you, know that you have done something right; you have shown
your children the power of books.
Ten tips for raising readers
Here are some tips, as recommended in "Raising Readers: Helping Your Child to Literacy" by Steven Bialostok.
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- Encourage your child to guess what words could mean using the
context as well a phonetic clues.
- Find opportunities to reread familiar books so your child learns words in a meaningful
content.
- Feel excited if your child has memorized a book.
Memorizing is one of the first steps in learning to read.
- Allow finger pointing to follow along with the text. You can
even let them see you finger pointing so they know it's OK!
- Don't force your child to read or listen to you read when they
don't want to.
- Have your child sit close to you when you read
to them. Not only does this create a happy and secure
environment, it allows for opportunities to see and learn about
print.
- Don't worry about the number of times you read the same
book. Children love hearing books read again and again.
- Help children discover print in many contexts -- on cereal boxes, street
signs, stores and restaurants.
- Don't expect your child to actively engage in reading if they never see you read.
- Make books accessible to your child at all times.
Links, information and more for you
Encouraging a Child to Read
Family Reading to Young Children
Helping Your Child Learn to Read
Directory of ages articles
Directory of all articles
About the author: Susan Attiyah is a wife and mother of two boys, ages 6 and
3. Susan is a freelance writer in the subject of parent education in which she has studied for many years. Her work has been seen in many newspapers and magazines such as,
Novalearn, The Writing Parent and many more. She currently
awaits the arrival of her first published children's picture book and
looks forward to sharing her book with families who enjoy reading to children as much as she does. Susan loves to hear from her readers and welcomes them to write
her anytime at sya90@aol.com.
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