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November 20, 2008

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Order meridia overnight delivery, As children approach puberty, they may struggle with body image. According to Kids Health, "having a healthy body image means that most of your feelings, ideas, and opinions about your body and appearance are positive. It means accepting and appreciating your body and feeling mostly satisfied with your appearance."Tweens and body image issues

Preteen boys and girls often become increasingly concerned with the way they look. They may spend unreasonable amounts of time looking at themselves in the mirror or getting dressed. At this age, appearances are so important. Tweens compare themselves to their peers, celebrities and images they see on TV or the Internet, order meridia overnight delivery. Being criticized about the way they look can be particularly hurtful at this age.

Most kids are dissatisfied with at least one aspect of their appearance, but feeling too self-critical is unhealthy. Children suddenly start worrying they're too short or too tall, or their nose is too big, or they don't dress right. Parents can be supportive and encouraging by:

Understanding
Parents may find it frustrating that their child is so caught up in the superficiality of it all. Order meridia overnight delivery, But this new focus is a natural part of growing up, and parents should try to be patient with their children's struggles. So while parents avoid criticizing this temporary narcissism,they can still set some limits on how much time, money or effort children spend on grooming, dressing or working out.

Reassuring
You may get the feeling that your kids only care what their peers think, but they care about what you think, too. Regularly give your child sincere compliments about their physical appearance as well as other important qualities. Compliment the blond ringlets or handsome smile, and also offer praise when they're responsible, Cheap meridia overnight delivery, get good grades and act kindly.

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Kids begin to realize that the decisions they make about appearances sends a message to others, order meridia overnight delivery. People -- especially tweens and teens -- express themselves by the way they look. Dressing one way (preppy) versus another (grungy), for example, gives others an idea about who your child is. Parents can challenge their kids to get to know someone who looks or dresses differently. If children are encouraged to look beyond clothes, hair, make-up and physique to the deeper qualities that others possess, they may find themselves less caught up in their own appearance.

Modeling Order meridia overnight delivery, If you are always critical about your own, your kids will follow suit. Though you may be unhappy with some part of your body, don't fret over it around your children. You'll be  a better role model if you focus on the good things that your body can do, and how it serves you in your daily life.

Ultimately, we want our kids to like themselves, purchase meridia. If tweens and teens learn to accept and appreciate their bodies now, they'll be more likely to grow up with a healthy and positive body image.

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July 31, 2008

Why we love tweens

Filed under: Ages 10-14 — Tags: , , , — Mary @ 7:18 am
Tweens are interesting characters. They innocently do what they want, when they want. They're usually not trying to be defiant, they honestly don't know any better.tween girl Tweens are young enough that their parents do things for them - if they don't get around to cleaning their room, Mom will. There's no sense of urgency to tend to chores. Tweens are forgetful. You're halfway to dance class when your daughter exclaims that she forgot her ballet shoes - she remembered to bring her favorite CD for the drive, but she forgot her shoes? Tweens have short attention spans. They can concentrate long enough to set up an elaborate science lab on the kitchen table, but they lose interest long before the stuff finds its way back to where it belongs. Tweens whine. They know they shouldn't, but they do - just in case it works like it did when they were four years old. Tweens can be manipulative. If they respond, "just a minute," to your request for help, it actually means, "I've already put it out of my mind." Tweens know what they know. How can your 10-year-old assemble complicated video equipment, but be unable to figure out how to load the dishwasher? Tweens need managing. If you give them something to do, you'd better tell them when to start, how to do it, and when they're done. Tweens are frozen by indecisiveness. When your son takes off his clean shirt, he knows it doesn't belong in the hamper with the dirty clothes, but he's not sure what sort of hanger to use to put it back in the closet. All he can do is leave it in a heap on the floor. Tweens are easily distracted. When you instruct them to clean their room, they move everything out into the hall, start organizing their top desk drawer, find an interesting book they never finished, and voila! they're done cleaning. While this behavior may drive parents crazy, it's easily forgiven. Kids grow up all too soon, and it's nice to know that they still need us.  So, for now, we'll put up with our tweens' quirkiness, and clean up after them... Read Connecting with your kids: Navigating the terrific, turbulent tween years to learn more about this fascinating age group.

July 30, 2008

Role models for kids

Filed under: Ages 10-14, Ages 5-8, The Teen Years — Tags: , , , , — Mary @ 1:13 pm
Role models have changed a lot since we were kids. Instead of emulating astronauts and presidents, many of today's youth look up to Disney-girls-gone-bad (like Lindsay Lohan or Britney Spears) and professional athletes who take steroids, or drink and drive.Role models for kids It's worrisome enough that kids imitate their heroes' sometimes shocking appearance - provocative clothing, bizarre hair, or overpriced athletic shoes - but what happens if they also choose to imitate their behavior? Kids spend a lot of time with the media - TV, the Internet, and beyond - and can tell you at any given time what the latest scandal is involving their favorite celebrities. Information in and of itself is not a bad thing, but some media coverage sends mixed messages. How will kids learn to understand consequences if the TV shows a mug shot of their hero one day and glamorous coverage of them at the next day's red carpet function or big ball game? Will they think that any behavior - teen pregnancy, underage drinking, potty mouth - is acceptable? Not necessarily. The Kaiser Family Foundation asked children ages 10 to 17 to list their role models. 73% named sports figures, more than half admire TV and movie stars, and rock or rap stars were listed by nearly a third of respondents. No surprises there, but guess what! More than 90% said their parents are the strongest influence in their lives. So exert your influence and be the best role model you can be for your children! What kind of role model are you?

July 28, 2008

Is your child ready to stay home alone?

Filed under: Ages 10-14, Ages 8-9 — Tags: , , — Mary @ 7:20 pm
Many parents struggle with whether or not it's okay to leave their child home alone while they run an errand or go out for an evening. For some, it's black and white - their children will not be left alone until they're old enough to drive a car. The reasoning is that someone be able to drive to a hospital in case of a broken bone, a concussion, or some other medical emergency. Other parents disagree and believe that children who are occasionally left home alone will learn independence and self-esteem.Is your child ready to stay home alone? This is one of those decisions best left to each individual family. While one family has a 10-year-old who demonstrates a great deal of maturity and responsibility, another might have a 14-year-old who simply is not good at making decisions. Consider your child's personality - is he or she trustworthy, self-confident, and sensible? Whatever their age, it's not easy to leave kids home alone for the first time. Here are a few things to keep in mind:
  • Make sure your child is comfortable with staying home alone. Some children may suggest the idea before they truly feel ready.
  • Develop a relationship with a reliable neighbor who can provide assistance if your child needs it, without using the neighbor as a distant babysitter. Doing so may undermine your child's sense of independence.
  • Make sure your child has all necessary phone numbers - your cell, your destination, your reliable neighbor, and 9-1-1, of course.
  • Review house rules, such as whether or not your child can use the microwave or the computer while you're gone.
  • Practice possible scenarios - What should your child tell callers about why their parents can't come to the phone? What if someone knocks at the door? What if a few friends stop by?
Listen to your child; if he or she doesn't seem ready, don't express disappointment or frustration. Start slowly. Experiment with daytime errands - a trip to a nearby post office or bank - that will help you and your child gain confidence. Part of being a good parent is knowing when to let go... Read Betwixt and between: Middle schoolers home alone for advice from the experts.

July 11, 2008

How to love your ‘tween

Filed under: Ages 10-14 — Tags: , , , , — Mary @ 2:23 pm
If you have a preteen - or "tween" - you may have noticed some distance growing between you. Your tween may begin to show less interest in your guidance and direction and more interest in what his or her peers do and say.How to love your ‘tween Your tween now confides in friends, locks the bedroom door, and just needs space. As a parent, you must acknowledge that this is part of growing up. Don't take it personally. Try not to nag, pry, or preach. Rather, give your child some space and set good examples in your own life. And be a soft spot for your tween to fall - this is the beginning of a tumultuous time for your child, and it's important that he or she know you're there. Some things you can do to stay close include:
  • Family meals. Continue to eat together at least once a day. Your tween is old enough to help prepare and clean-up the meal, too, and it's a great time to talk casually. If it's been a long day and you don't feel like cooking, get some takeout and eat it around the table family-style.
  • Bedtime routine. Your tween may feel too old to be "tucked in," but it's still important that he or she maintain a bedtime routine. Staying on a schedule will help your child get needed rest and remain healthy.
  • Stay involved. As your tween becomes involved with more and more activities, you can become involved too - without smothering your child. Rather than take on the position of soccer coach or scout leader, attend the games, support the fund raisers, transport your child to practices and meetings. It's important that children feel a sense of independence and that they develop a life of their own without an ever-present parental unit.
  • Be affectionate. Don't offer public displays of affection - you may just embarrass your child. But do continue to verbalize and show your love in other ways. Respect new boundaries, and try not to feel slighted; your child isn't trying to hurt you. As your son or daughter tries to figure things out, the security being loved by a parent offers constant reassurance that everything will be okay.
For one mother's emotional journey with her tween daughter, read It ain't easy being a 'tween.
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